Whether you’ve been waking up next to the same wifey/hubby for what seems like forever, just became an official Mr. or Mrs., have a wedding in the works, or just decided to update your relationship status for the masses, the thought of your sex life changing just because you’re locked down for life (that’s the hope!) doesn’t have to scare the s*** out of you. Yes, your shift in status might bring some changes to the bedroom, but your level of intimacy can still be out of control. Don’t ever look at marriage as a challenge to your physical connection - if anything, it’s an opportunity to have mind-blowing sex with the person you love the most for the rest of your days. That’s right, mind. blowing. Swipe through for some tricks….
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Once the wedding is over, it’s 1000000 percent normal to feel sad, depressed, anxious over so much more time back in your lives, but you shouldn’t let the fact that your wedding day is dunzo impact your sexual relationship. Actually, we might even advise you TO have lots and lots of sex in order to extinguish any of those melancholy moments and remember that yah, the wedding is over, but your life with him or her is just starting! And so is that just-married sex.
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Okay, now that you’re married, you’re committed. You don’t have to fake things, or feel obligated to do x, y and z with your guy or girl if you don’t want to or don’t like it. Marriage gives you both the sounding board to say what you like, love or hateeeee about your lovemaking, so make it count! If you like certain positions more than others, let him know. If he wants to try something new, he should tell you, too! Think of marriage as an open forum to tweak your f***ing.
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Like we said before, life can get monotonous, so one of the biggest ways to keep you both turned on, is to turn normal, commonplace things / chores, etc. into roleplay. Think about sending him out with a grocery list complete with eggs, milk, cereal, yogurt, whipped cream, condoms, and a note about what you’d like him to do to you later. He’ll make sure that list is handled ASAP and with a smile.
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This one’s the BEST. You know how excited you used to get when you opened a piece of chocolate every day in December, before Santa came? Well, this is just like that… only, more adult. For your anniversary month, consider making a 30/31 day calendar or gift exchange full of sexual sweet treats. Whether it’s an explicit edible, a new position to try out, or a new place to do the damn thing, make sure it’s all wrapped up and charged with anticipation. And on your actual anniversary, fill your hole with something rated XXX.
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We’re not saying you need to go full Red Room here, but since you’ll probably be doing some renovating on the rest of the house, why not make some upgrades to your boudoir? If you can retire to a space that isn’t strewn with clothes on the floor, bed sheets that are more fun than functional, and lit by candles that make you feel more horny than homy, than you’ll be much more likely to get it on. Treat your bedroom as your temple. Try not to let it get too basic.... That goes for your bathroom, too. Give the place you do #2 a foreplay-worthy facelift.
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