Talking about it is fun
Flirting is fun. Talking about sex is fun. Men want to hear from us. Talking/texting about it can set the mood for your whole evening. The level of dirty is definitely up to you and it should be made clear in advance if you have boundaries.
We have a special added bon(er)us for you. In his own words, this guy says:
1. Initiate — if you’re a lady in the mood, don’t send subtle signals. Just start making out with him. Or rubbing him. Or even just telling him, “let’s do this. Now.”
2. Where do you see yourself in five years? If you see yourself not giving blow jobs (or rim jobs, or whatever jobs) to your partner, then don’t do it during the exciting early phase. Be the sexual person you are, not who you want him to think you are. It’s a kind of masturbate-and-switch.
See also: 5 Simple Sex Tips That Every Man Should Read
Food for thought, right ladies?
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