5 Things Women Should Never Say to Men
Ok ladies. Let's STOP saying this for ever and always. This is like saying women belong in the kitchen and bedroom. Get it? It's a rude thing to say. IF you decide to acquire children in any way and raise a boy - hopefully this phrase will be erased from your mind by then.
Say this not that
Please be kind.
Please be considerate.
Please be honest with me.
Please help me.
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Try not to make generalizations about his habits, mainly because it will not help your cause. It's not effective communication.
Say this not that
You've been hanging out with your friends a lot lately, I'd like to spend time with you.
You're playing video games more often, can we go for a walk together instead?
You're working late more than usual, thank you for working hard.
You look really handsome today, ya hot hunk you.
You did the dishes, thank you! Chores are sexy.
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No, just NO ladies. Stop this. You know you've done it. Here's a newsflash, men have FEELINGS. This does not make anyone's feelings feel good.
Say this not that
Mmmmm.
Oh yeah.
Or say nothing at all.
Literally say anything besides "Are you done yet?"
Ladies, I know what you're thinking and NO you cannot say hurry up.
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The answer is yes. That is what he is wearing otherwise he would be wearing something else. Also, who cares what he's wearing. Is he a nice and kind person? Yes? Well, then nothing else matters. Let him wear board shorts with socks and shoes or shorts with a thermal and a flannel. What's going to happen? Nothing. Noting will happen if you don't like your man's outfit. Get over yourself.
Say this not that.
I love your style.
The event's kinda fancy, want to wear your black suit?
I love how you express yourself through fashion.
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Talk about emasculation. You're skinny? Oh wow, thanks. That makes me feel so good. Said no one ever.
Say this not that
I love your body.
You're sexy.
Babe, you're hot AF.
Take me in the other room.
You make me feel good.
You're so sweet to me.
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