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How To Have the Perfect Backyard Wedding in Hawaii

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How To Have the Perfect Backyard Wedding in Hawaii

Okay, so maybe it's not feasible for everyone to say "I do" in Hawaii, but this next real-life couple cut costs where they could and borrowed the back yard of the bride's parents vacation home to make this fabulous low key day happen. So whether an actual Hawaiian wedding is in the cards for you or not, here are some killer ideas for your big day no matter what the coordinates of your wedding might be.

Don't miss a single detail, we have a full gallery of images for you to look through thanks to Ashley Goodwin Photography. Oh, and did we mention there's a budget breakdown below too? Keep scrolling for more!


vintage Hawaii themed wedding invitation suite


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white peach and orange wedding bouquet


the bride and a gaggle of flower girlswhite yellow and peach wedding bouquet


floral applique wedding dress and elegant wedding updo


cute little flower girls in Hawaiiwedding fansweet flower girls all ready for the big day


groom and his men chillinggroom and his groomsmen

A Sweet And Intimate Affair

One of my all-time favorite types of weddings is a backyard wedding. There is something so magical about being able to transform a beloved family home into a one of a kind celebration. When this lovely couple reached out to me with their vision of turning the bride's parent's beachfront vacation home into a beautiful, sentimental and intimate affair, I couldn't wait to get started! 

With each element of this wedding, we strove to incorporate personal and sentimental elements. A dear friend of the bride and groom's played the processional songs on a keyboard as they walked down the aisle. The bride's brother officiated the ceremony. During the cocktail hour sausages with international mustard; a unique family holiday tradition. All of the favors had handwritten thank you notes written by the bride's mother. An heirloom cake cutting set was used to cut the cake. Furniture from the house was used for the lounge and cake table. My all-time favorite sentimental element was when the bride and groom incorporated a Mai Tai toast at sunset into the program. This is something the bride's family does every night when they are in Hawaii and they wanted to share the tradition with all of their guests. It was a huge hit, to say the least.


wedding ceremony in Hawaiiwedding sunglasses and fans


happy baby wedding guesthere comes the flower girls


wedding ceremony in Hawaii


groom in teal and light greysweet wedding photo ideasigning the marriage license fun and strapless wedding dress


sunset beach wedding kiss

Love From Hawaii

Aside from sentimental elements, they also added a few understated Hawaiian touches. For example, they had a musician play the ukulele and sing during the prelude, cocktail hour and dinner. The bride and groom honored their family members with a traditional Hawaiian lei during the ceremony. Last but not least, instead of a traditional guest book, the guests were invited to write on vintage Hawaiian postcards that would be mailed to them throughout their first year of marriage. 

From beginning to end this event was packed full of thoughtful details, amazing food and a beautiful group of the bride and groom's nearest and dearest.


hawaii themed welcome table


vintage postcardsigning the vintage postcard guest bookvintage postcard guest book


wedding sign


wedding day flatscheers to the newlyweds


hawaiian themed wedding place setting


ceremony signwedding kiss


wedding lounge


hawaiian themed cocktailswedding bar in Hawaiiwedding beer koozies


sunset inspired floral accented wedding cake

The Budget Breakdown

Wedding Planner: $6800
Wedding Gown: $5000
Hair & Makeup: $1200
Stationery: $600
Venue: $ FREE family & neighbors houses
Officiant: $ FREE Bride's Brother
Photography: $4100
Videography: $3000
Catering: $6000
Cake: $150 (family friend)
Bar & Beverage: $1000
Ceremony & Cocktail Hour Entertainment: $500
Reception DJ & Sound: $1750
Fire Dance Performance: $550
Childcare Services: $400
Rentals & Decor: $5000
Florals: $2800

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